My girlfriend flirts with random guys on social media and adds them as friends – The US Sun
Samuel Coleman
Published Sep 25, 2026
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN random guys flirt with my girlfriend on social media, she “adds” them as friends.
I am 23 and she is 22.

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We have been together for almost a year and our relationship is good.
But she is always on her phone and is a flirt.
Guys are contacting her all the time.
I tried talking to her but she says it is just harmless fun and that it is me who she loves.
But I am not allowed to be friends with girls on Facebook.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Have you ever heard the old saying, “Sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander”? That certainly applies here.
Tell your girlfriend she must stop behaving like this.
Any communications with other guys should be clearly friendly, rather than flirty – so that she is happy to share them with you.
The same should apply to your communications with girls.
My e-leaflet Standing Up For Yourself will help you be clear with her.
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